Turn an in-person connection into a safer first date!

Why meeting someone in person feels impossible.
Safety ⚠️
It’s risky to go on a date with someone you meet in person without first having them pass a background check.
Compatibility 🤨
You don't know if they are compatible with you.
Rejection 👎
Asking for someone's phone number can be intimidating and awkward. 
No 👻 ghosting No 🤖 bots No 🍆 d*ck pics No 💬 chat

Skip's Date Cards solve these problems

Safety

🛡️ When you give a date card to someone you meet in person, you can require them to pass a background check before they can propose a date—offering you a safer dating experience.
📱 Privacy First – No need to share contact info.

Compatibility

Skip Date cards lead people to your
Skip profile where they must 100%
pass your dealbreaker questions to
book a date with you.

Rejection

You can quickly leave the card for
someone without having to think of
how to approach them or worrying
about a response if they aren't
interested.

How does it work?

1. Tap on "Order Skip Date
Cards" button.
2. Provide shipping and Date Card
details.
3. Place your order for a set of Skip Date Cards.
4. Hand the Date Card to someone
you are interested in going on a date with.
5. If they 100% pass your dealbreakers and a background check, they can then propose a date with you.
Get your Skip Date Cards to help you find your next date in person!
✅ Date Cards work everywhere, even in unopened cities.
✅ Enjoy FREE delivery of Date Cards straight to your door!
✅ Date Cards integrate seamlessly with the Skip app’s trusted safety features, including background checks, photo and ID verification, and date reviews.
How we help make dating safer

See how Skip compares against traditional dating apps. Tap each item to learn more

Others

Background checks ⓘ

Background checks can help make first dates safer by adding an extra screening step before meeting. Skip uses SSN verification, which helps reduce fraud risk compared with name-only screening.

How it Works:

✔ Require a match to pass a background check before the first date.

✔ Screening may include, where available, sex offender registries, global watchlists, and national records.

✔ Results are generally valid for 12 months, so there is no need to repeat for every date.

✔ Users can voluntarily complete one to earn a profile badge.

Deal Breakers ⓘ

Deal breakers help make first dates safer by setting expectations early, filtering out bad fits, and making red flags easier to recognize.

How it Works:

🛡️ Set Expectations Early: Use deal breakers to communicate what matters before the date, so you do not have to bring up important boundaries for the first time in an awkward or uncomfortable in-person moment.

🚫 Filter Out Bad Fits Early: On Skip, matches must pass your deal breakers at 100% in order to propose a date, helping filter out people who do not meet your standards before a first date.

🚩 Spot Red Flags: Setting clear boundary deal breakers upfront makes it easier to recognize when someone intentionally crosses a line, because your boundaries were already clearly communicated.

Profile Verification ⓘ

Profile verification helps make dating safer by helping confirm the person in the photos is the same person you would meet on the date.

How it Works:

📸 Take a guided selfie.


🛠️ We verify authenticity to help prevent fakes.


✅ Earn a blue checkmark once confirmed.

Date Reviews ⓘ

Date reviews can help make first dates safer by adding accountability after the date. Users can leave private feedback to help surface red flags and support a safer community.

How it Works:

⭐ Private feedback: Users can leave anonymous ratings and reviews after each date to help surface positive or concerning behavior.

📍 Date tracking: Skip logs who, where, and when a date occurs, helping connect reviews to real dates and add accountability.

✅ Trust signals: Positive post-date compliments can appear on a profile and help provide added context for future users considering whether to like their profile.

❌ Removing Unsafe Users: Reviews help flag users who violate safety standards, making it easier for Skip to remove unsafe users.

Date Cards ⓘ

A safer way to turn an in-person connection into a date.

How it Works:

🤝 Share a Date Card: If you see someone in person and are interested in getting to know them, hand them a Date Card instead of sharing your number. This keeps your personal contact info private until you feel safe sharing it.

🛡️ Built-In Safety: Date Cards help turn an in-person connection into a safer first date by guiding the other person through your required safety and compatibility steps on Skip, like passing your background check and deal breakers, before you agree to go on a date.

No AI Chat Catfishing ⓘ

Skip helps make dating safer by preventing AI chat catfishing through completely removing in-app chat, so bots and scammers cannot hide behind fake conversations.

Without chat, scammers have fewer ways to ask for money, stay anonymous, or manipulate users remotely. Most will not agree to an in-person date, because it exposes their identity and makes scams much harder to pull off.

Easily Share Date Details ⓘ

Skip helps make dating safer by making it easy to share your date details with friends and family.

📅 Share who you’re meeting, where, and when.

👥 Keep loved ones informed.


🛡️ Added transparency for safer first dates.

Contacts shared only after the first date, if desired ⓘ

Skip helps make dating safer by letting you decide after a first date if, when, or whether to share your contact details.

✅ Share contact info only if you choose and feel comfortable.

🔒 Avoid unwanted messages, harassment, and scams.

🛡️ Keep your personal details private until you are ready.

See how Skip compares against traditional dating apps. Tap each item to learn more

Others

Background checks ⓘ

Background Check

Skip has partnered with Checkr for a smarter and safer way to date.

How it Works:

✔ Matches can require background checks before accepting date proposals.

✔ Users can voluntarily complete one to earn a profile badge.

✔ Covers sex offender registries, global watchlists, and national records.

✔ Valid for 12 months—no need to repeat for every date.

Date reviews ⓘ

Date Reviews

Skip has partnered with Checkr for a smarter and safer way to date.

How it Works:

⭐ Anonymous Ratings & Reviews: Users provide private feedback after each date to help maintain a safer community.

📍 Date Tracking: Skip logs who, where, and when a date occurs.

❌ Banning Unsafe Users: Reviews flag users who violate safety standards.

Profile verification ⓘ

Profile Verification

A safer, more authentic dating experience

How it Works:

📸 Take a guided selfie.


🛠️ We verify authenticity to prevent fakes.


✅ Earn a blue checkmark once confirmed.

Date cards ⓘ

Date Cards

A safer way to meet in person

How it Works:

🛡️ When you give a date card to someone you meet in person, you can require them to pass a background check before they can propose a date—offering you a safer dating experience.

🔒 Privacy First – No need to share contact info until you're ready.


No AI chat catfishing ⓘ

No AI Chat Catfishing

Skip prevents AI catfishing by removing chat, making it impossible for bots 🤖 to pose as real people.

Without chat 💬, scammers can't ask for money or stay anonymous. Most won’t travel for an in-person date, as it exposes their identity and makes scams unviable. In contrast, chat-based apps let scammers exploit users remotely.

Easily share date details ⓘ

Easily Share Date Details

Skip enhances safety by making it easy to share key date details with friends and family.

📅 Share who you’re meeting, where, and when.


👥 Keep loved ones informed.


🛡️ Added transparency for safer, more confident dating.

Secondary phone number ⓘ

Secondary phone number

Skip lets you use a secondary number for added safety.

📱 Protect your personal details from stalkers.


🔒 Use a Google Voice number to stay private.


You decide when and with whom to share contact information.

Contacts shared only after the first date, if desired ⓘ

Contact Details

Skip keeps you in control of your contact info for safer dating.

✅ Share contacts only after your first date—if you choose.


🔒 Avoid unwanted messages, harassment, and scams.


🛡️ Protect your privacy until you're ready.

What do they say about Skip?

"A Skip Date Card led to Marriage 💍"
I love the idea of the skip dating cards! It actually gave me to courage to go up to a stranger and ask him on a date. I didn't need to give him my phone number or social media to plan the date, which made me feel safer about approaching him. Now we are married and very happy all thanks to skip!
Anna S.
Verified Skip User
"It's more of a Matchmaker Service than like a dating app"
this was such a good experience and so much better than what I'm used to with Hinge and Bumble and even with men I meet in real life.
Alexi C.
Verified Skip User

Skip re-invents 19th century courtship cards!

In the late 19th century, courtship cards became a popular way for young people to bypass the rigid social norms of Victorian courtship.
They typically featured playful messages, such as invitations to escort a lady home, thus serving as early icebreakers. The use of these cards offered a lighthearted means to initiate contact and flirt without overt breaches of etiquette.